5 QUESTIONS YOU’LL HEAR AS A MILITARY SPOUSE 4
Me and tell them. That or just disregard the question and not answer. It we don't know. Anyone anything nope next on our list. You and your spouse. That married before or after the military. Whether it's um maybe the army. Whatever it is that you're doing um and that's also an onion question yeah that's none of your business but you know. You you will be asked. That's because a lot of people also think.
That people aren't really married and a lot of people who join the military and get married after joining the military. They get married after the fact. They feel though they're doing it for bah mm-hmm which is for the military assistance with housing so. They think that people are doing it for the wrong reason. Yet or they'll ask like. How long were y'all married before. He joined the Navy. He or she joined the military yeah. If your relationship is not like significant mm-hmm.
If y'all got married right before. He or she went in or y'all got married only so y'all would technically be married before. You went in like. They make it seem like. Some marriages are better. Than other marriages which I'm not gonna lie. I have seen people get married for the wrong reasons like I've run into. Some people. That they get married so.
That they could get the behavior like that's a real thing I'm not gonna like sitting here and saying that's not a real thing it is but to ask. Someone like personal stuff about their marriage then. It intended to make. It right oh and up to plan to her same question is that they'll ask. How long did. You know the person before. I got married. I guess people did. They meet one night at the clinic. They get angry yeah. You want to get married tomorrow.
You got benefits sure. I know amount of time. You know so on nothing to do with. How solid your marriage is. That's because I've seen people have known. Each other for three months. You know they get married and they laughs a lot alike and there's people. That have known people for each other for 13 years get married and then it's months exactly so. You know follow your heart and do like. You would hope you're doing it for the right reasons but expect to get. That question expect. It comes to being a military spouse. You have to like expect criticism like no matter. What you do you're never gonna be just a perfect military spouse yeah like. You have so don't.
Even try to be like the people try to live your life for you have thick skin and don't let the questions like bother your or like interfere with your relationship. Because some of the questions. That they ask. You you'll then turn around an accent husband like. How come you didn't tell. That yeah the causing drama. How come I didn't know about it yeah that's so less is best yeah. You feel totally comfortable with people and you have to be picky to see who you get comfortable with. Because people. If they're in the heat for certain things. They will bring you down with them who you can see loves company and milk in this military lifestyle you're guilty by association so with. That being said just be really careful and expect.
These annoying questions so. I feel like the most asked questions. That you're going to get. That you're gonna hear and that you're probably going to ask other people yeah so. This is maybe not an annoying this isn't annoying but you can expect. This week a lot and basically like. Where are you from and it's really a conversation bill they're people who are just trying to start a conversation but yeah. This is a number. One question. That you will ask.
Where you're from why did. You decide to move. How long have. You been stationed here yeah then you're not gonna meet too. Many people like in you go to a station you're not gonna meet too. Many people. That are from. You are so right now we're. Both in Washington. We live in Washington and I could probably count the number of people.
That people aren't really married and a lot of people who join the military and get married after joining the military. They get married after the fact. They feel though they're doing it for bah mm-hmm which is for the military assistance with housing so. They think that people are doing it for the wrong reason. Yet or they'll ask like. How long were y'all married before. He joined the Navy. He or she joined the military yeah. If your relationship is not like significant mm-hmm.
If y'all got married right before. He or she went in or y'all got married only so y'all would technically be married before. You went in like. They make it seem like. Some marriages are better. Than other marriages which I'm not gonna lie. I have seen people get married for the wrong reasons like I've run into. Some people. That they get married so.
That they could get the behavior like that's a real thing I'm not gonna like sitting here and saying that's not a real thing it is but to ask. Someone like personal stuff about their marriage then. It intended to make. It right oh and up to plan to her same question is that they'll ask. How long did. You know the person before. I got married. I guess people did. They meet one night at the clinic. They get angry yeah. You want to get married tomorrow.
You got benefits sure. I know amount of time. You know so on nothing to do with. How solid your marriage is. That's because I've seen people have known. Each other for three months. You know they get married and they laughs a lot alike and there's people. That have known people for each other for 13 years get married and then it's months exactly so. You know follow your heart and do like. You would hope you're doing it for the right reasons but expect to get. That question expect. It comes to being a military spouse. You have to like expect criticism like no matter. What you do you're never gonna be just a perfect military spouse yeah like. You have so don't.
Even try to be like the people try to live your life for you have thick skin and don't let the questions like bother your or like interfere with your relationship. Because some of the questions. That they ask. You you'll then turn around an accent husband like. How come you didn't tell. That yeah the causing drama. How come I didn't know about it yeah that's so less is best yeah. You feel totally comfortable with people and you have to be picky to see who you get comfortable with. Because people. If they're in the heat for certain things. They will bring you down with them who you can see loves company and milk in this military lifestyle you're guilty by association so with. That being said just be really careful and expect.
These annoying questions so. I feel like the most asked questions. That you're going to get. That you're gonna hear and that you're probably going to ask other people yeah so. This is maybe not an annoying this isn't annoying but you can expect. This week a lot and basically like. Where are you from and it's really a conversation bill they're people who are just trying to start a conversation but yeah. This is a number. One question. That you will ask.
Where you're from why did. You decide to move. How long have. You been stationed here yeah then you're not gonna meet too. Many people like in you go to a station you're not gonna meet too. Many people. That are from. You are so right now we're. Both in Washington. We live in Washington and I could probably count the number of people.
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