5 QUESTIONS YOU’LL HEAR AS A MILITARY SPOUSE 3
This is the face. That makes gooster and then. I just wind. It back and in my mind. I was like ain't. I work every time. You come here like every single time. You come here I'm here so I'm working just as much. What you work means. We got no help so. I just wanna for you or knew. That most of these questions. That kia is going to bring us they're they're mainly questions. That are sometimes inappropriate questions. That will make. You feel uncomfortable. This comes back to disrespectful sometimes it's condescending uncalled for yeah so um. Someone accidentally your personal business is about like.
What what the kids are doing and why are. You working or has. Nothing to do with them no but if you're getting ready to get into the situation. Where your significant other is thinking about joining the military like. This is what you can expect yeah like. This next one this is for this thing you do during the week okay so. I work part time and before. Even moved here. I had a specific career. That I had build on not. Even for a year or two but it was like. I was doing this for a while so. I had the same expectations.
That I would find a similar type of job and I would continue to do. That did not happen depending on where. You go the job market is not. All the same always the same so. You kind of have to prepare for that emotionally mentally financially and for me I wanted to be able to do. Something rather. Nothing and I found the part-time job so a question. That I'll get from my co-workers is oh so. What do you do during the week. What do you do at your time off it's not. Even coming from a good place. They have no intention so.
I can talk about it later exactly oh. You know she could take. Some extra shifts but she'll have. Nothing doing so a lot of times. You are looked down upon as a military spouse. Whether you are working or working part-time are not working at all there's no you'll get a mix tough. I guess feedback from people. What they think is a norm and it's worse. Because I do have kids people expect. I think this translates to the real world people with women with kids then expect. It to kind of stay at home with their kids but at the same time society expects them to work so. You get criticized. Either way so. You you want to be a stay-at-home mom and stay home with your kids people look down upon. Because you don't go to work Oh your husband's fan on the bills.
You don't do. Anything yeah and then. You decide to go work and they're like oh you're a bad mother. Because you sing your kids to take care and they could get. They can eat tapeworms they're. They could choke on a cheerio or so later. That translates to the real world in like a real way. I guess you could say. Because either way. It goes you you're gonna get good and bad feedback for whatever you choose to do will be asked the oddest questions questions.
That you don't necessarily want to answer or just. You know not answer - exactly and right now. You don't feel comfortable answering something if. You feel like. Someone is overstepping their boundaries. You could either be like.
What what the kids are doing and why are. You working or has. Nothing to do with them no but if you're getting ready to get into the situation. Where your significant other is thinking about joining the military like. This is what you can expect yeah like. This next one this is for this thing you do during the week okay so. I work part time and before. Even moved here. I had a specific career. That I had build on not. Even for a year or two but it was like. I was doing this for a while so. I had the same expectations.
That I would find a similar type of job and I would continue to do. That did not happen depending on where. You go the job market is not. All the same always the same so. You kind of have to prepare for that emotionally mentally financially and for me I wanted to be able to do. Something rather. Nothing and I found the part-time job so a question. That I'll get from my co-workers is oh so. What do you do during the week. What do you do at your time off it's not. Even coming from a good place. They have no intention so.
I can talk about it later exactly oh. You know she could take. Some extra shifts but she'll have. Nothing doing so a lot of times. You are looked down upon as a military spouse. Whether you are working or working part-time are not working at all there's no you'll get a mix tough. I guess feedback from people. What they think is a norm and it's worse. Because I do have kids people expect. I think this translates to the real world people with women with kids then expect. It to kind of stay at home with their kids but at the same time society expects them to work so. You get criticized. Either way so. You you want to be a stay-at-home mom and stay home with your kids people look down upon. Because you don't go to work Oh your husband's fan on the bills.
You don't do. Anything yeah and then. You decide to go work and they're like oh you're a bad mother. Because you sing your kids to take care and they could get. They can eat tapeworms they're. They could choke on a cheerio or so later. That translates to the real world in like a real way. I guess you could say. Because either way. It goes you you're gonna get good and bad feedback for whatever you choose to do will be asked the oddest questions questions.
That you don't necessarily want to answer or just. You know not answer - exactly and right now. You don't feel comfortable answering something if. You feel like. Someone is overstepping their boundaries. You could either be like.
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